Reasons.

Welcome to the very first blog post!  Before I get to the real reason for making this blog, let me first explain how I came to this decision.

My boyfriend Matthew and I were sitting on the couch in the Fine Arts building of our college talking to each other about...well, each other.  We talked about my bucket list, which is a list of things a person wants to do before they die, for those who don't know.  We talked about when we die, whether we want to be buried or cremated, you know, normal things couples talk about. /sarcasm.

Anyway, as we were talking, I was Facebook stalking myself and Matthew(weird, I know, but it happens often).  I went to my Quotes section and began reading.  Matthew read them as well, he had never read them before.  In that section were tons of mushy love quotes, and things that Matthew had said to me that I loved.  There was also a quote by me that read,

"I swear to God you'll never understand what this feels like. And when you do, I hope that you just...let yourself go. I hope that you completely immerse yourself in the feeling, because this kind of thing only happens once in a life time. It's rare, and it's frightening, and unique, and intoxicating, and refreshing. It's the kind of thing that, even though you may look at someone else and say, "Why doesn't my boyfriend do that?", you still remember at the end of the day that your relationship is perfect for YOU. And you realize that no one will EVER fit the mold of your perfect person than the one you are in love with. And no one will EVER fit the mold of HIS perfect person...but you. And then, everyone you were ever with before him make you realize that you never even really liked those people to begin with...You were just figuring out what you DIDN'T want. And now that you have what you DO want, you know that you...can't lose it. It's logically irrational, and it's beautiful. It's scary as hell. But it's a feeling I will never feel for anyone else ever again. And, I am completely...okay with that." 

Mushy, huh?  So, as Matthew was reading this he told me I should start a blog.  I asked him what about and he said it should be about love.  It should be a blog that targets young adult women like myself, and explains to them everything that I have learned since being with him.  What a girl should do in certain situations, how to land the perfect man, and KEEP him, how men think, how different they are from women, and WHY that makes men and women so perfect for each other.  So... Here I am! 


I'm going to make one post every week, on whatever it is that I think of that week.  I'll be taking notes of things Matthew does, things I think about, things we talk about, past arguments, etc... To help you women stay away from the guys who...aren't right for you! Because, if I'm being honest here, if what you have isn't like what I have... It's not right.  And I don't mean you have to have a man with EVERY trait or characteristic or whatever as Matthew.  But, love is love.  But I'm getting into a whole different topic here.  Since this is just an introduction, I'll be posting something later on today for this week.  I am going to try to have a new post up every Wednesday evening, but the days may change depending on how many notes I have taken by Wednesday.  


For all of you reading, thank you for your interest in me, and the topics I will be touching on. 


Sincerely grateful, 
The Girl in Love